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		<title>By: jasondoucette</title>
		<link>http://stayingvegan.com/2010/01/dealing-with-non-vegan-family-members/comment-page-1/#comment-223</link>
		<dc:creator>jasondoucette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 01:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the quick update Elaine!</description>
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		<title>By: Elaine</title>
		<link>http://stayingvegan.com/2010/01/dealing-with-non-vegan-family-members/comment-page-1/#comment-222</link>
		<dc:creator>Elaine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 22:01:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>HI bitt,&lt;br&gt;If you foster-adopt a baby, they you&#039;d raise him or her just like you&#039;d raise a biological child. That is, when they start eating real food, then they start eating vegan food. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Generally, you introduce real food no earlier than 4 months. You introduce foods slowly, one at a time to see if there are allergic reactions. You introduce veggies first, then fruits. Even meat-eater parents introduce meat and dairy last, usually after the baby is a year old. So vegan parents simply never introduce meat, dairy or eggs and instead they introduce more fruits, veggies, grains, and legumes. And if they want, they introduce meat alternatives.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;If you foster-adopt an older child, then either you wait until a vegetarian or vegan child becomes available and you offer him or her the best possible temporary or new home.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Or you help ease an older omni child into your vegan lifestyle by letting them eat food they&#039;re familiar with and slowly transitioning them to vegan food.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;All parents need to be flexible. Foster parents probably have to be a bit more flexible. So in this case it might make sense to take a wider view of vegan parenting. Instead of focusing purely on diet, think about parenting a child in such a way as to foster respect for animals. Even if the child is nonvegan, you can still teach them about respecting animals so that when they are old enough to make their own choices, they&#039;re more likely to choose vegan for themselves.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>HI bitt,<br />If you foster-adopt a baby, they you&#39;d raise him or her just like you&#39;d raise a biological child. That is, when they start eating real food, then they start eating vegan food. </p>
<p>Generally, you introduce real food no earlier than 4 months. You introduce foods slowly, one at a time to see if there are allergic reactions. You introduce veggies first, then fruits. Even meat-eater parents introduce meat and dairy last, usually after the baby is a year old. So vegan parents simply never introduce meat, dairy or eggs and instead they introduce more fruits, veggies, grains, and legumes. And if they want, they introduce meat alternatives.</p>
<p>If you foster-adopt an older child, then either you wait until a vegetarian or vegan child becomes available and you offer him or her the best possible temporary or new home.</p>
<p>Or you help ease an older omni child into your vegan lifestyle by letting them eat food they&#39;re familiar with and slowly transitioning them to vegan food.</p>
<p>All parents need to be flexible. Foster parents probably have to be a bit more flexible. So in this case it might make sense to take a wider view of vegan parenting. Instead of focusing purely on diet, think about parenting a child in such a way as to foster respect for animals. Even if the child is nonvegan, you can still teach them about respecting animals so that when they are old enough to make their own choices, they&#39;re more likely to choose vegan for themselves.</p>
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		<title>By: jasondoucette</title>
		<link>http://stayingvegan.com/2010/01/dealing-with-non-vegan-family-members/comment-page-1/#comment-221</link>
		<dc:creator>jasondoucette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 17:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the quick update Elaine!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the quick update Elaine!</p>
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		<title>By: Elaine</title>
		<link>http://stayingvegan.com/2010/01/dealing-with-non-vegan-family-members/comment-page-1/#comment-220</link>
		<dc:creator>Elaine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 14:01:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>HI bitt,&lt;br&gt;If you foster-adopt a baby, they you&#039;d raise him or her just like you&#039;d raise a biological child. That is, when they start eating real food, then they start eating vegan food. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Generally, you introduce real food no earlier than 4 months. You introduce foods slowly, one at a time to see if there are allergic reactions. You introduce veggies first, then fruits. Even meat-eater parents introduce meat and dairy last, usually after the baby is a year old. So vegan parents simply never introduce meat, dairy or eggs and instead they introduce more fruits, veggies, grains, and legumes. And if they want, they introduce meat alternatives.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;If you foster-adopt an older child, then either you wait until a vegetarian or vegan child becomes available and you offer him or her the best possible temporary or new home.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Or you help ease an older omni child into your vegan lifestyle by letting them eat food they&#039;re familiar with and slowly transitioning them to vegan food.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;All parents need to be flexible. Foster parents probably have to be a bit more flexible. So in this case it might make sense to take a wider view of vegan parenting. Instead of focusing purely on diet, think about parenting a child in such a way as to foster respect for animals. Even if the child is nonvegan, you can still teach them about respecting animals so that when they are old enough to make their own choices, they&#039;re more likely to choose vegan for themselves.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>HI bitt,<br />If you foster-adopt a baby, they you&#39;d raise him or her just like you&#39;d raise a biological child. That is, when they start eating real food, then they start eating vegan food. </p>
<p>Generally, you introduce real food no earlier than 4 months. You introduce foods slowly, one at a time to see if there are allergic reactions. You introduce veggies first, then fruits. Even meat-eater parents introduce meat and dairy last, usually after the baby is a year old. So vegan parents simply never introduce meat, dairy or eggs and instead they introduce more fruits, veggies, grains, and legumes. And if they want, they introduce meat alternatives.</p>
<p>If you foster-adopt an older child, then either you wait until a vegetarian or vegan child becomes available and you offer him or her the best possible temporary or new home.</p>
<p>Or you help ease an older omni child into your vegan lifestyle by letting them eat food they&#39;re familiar with and slowly transitioning them to vegan food.</p>
<p>All parents need to be flexible. Foster parents probably have to be a bit more flexible. So in this case it might make sense to take a wider view of vegan parenting. Instead of focusing purely on diet, think about parenting a child in such a way as to foster respect for animals. Even if the child is nonvegan, you can still teach them about respecting animals so that when they are old enough to make their own choices, they&#39;re more likely to choose vegan for themselves.</p>
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		<title>By: bitt</title>
		<link>http://stayingvegan.com/2010/01/dealing-with-non-vegan-family-members/comment-page-1/#comment-219</link>
		<dc:creator>bitt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 03:47:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i&#039;d like to know more about fostering older kids too. if one wants to foster to adopt, you can&#039;t just keep feeding them formula forever. and i&#039;ve also wondered what if they were to have a soy intolerancy?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i&#39;d like to know more about fostering older kids too. if one wants to foster to adopt, you can&#39;t just keep feeding them formula forever. and i&#39;ve also wondered what if they were to have a soy intolerancy?</p>
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		<title>By: jendiggity</title>
		<link>http://stayingvegan.com/2010/01/dealing-with-non-vegan-family-members/comment-page-1/#comment-218</link>
		<dc:creator>jendiggity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 21:55:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My mother-in-law went practically vegan last year and eats mostly from-scratch, whole foods, so we&#039;re really stoked about that. My mom has already tipped me off that an aunt has already commented that she&#039;ll get to be the one to spoil the baby and sneak her treats we won&#039;t let her have. !!!  I think that, because we have not wanted to be preachy to our family members, we haven&#039;t been very candid about WHY we make the choices we do and it may be time for that so that they can better understand just how important it is.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My mother-in-law went practically vegan last year and eats mostly from-scratch, whole foods, so we&#39;re really stoked about that. My mom has already tipped me off that an aunt has already commented that she&#39;ll get to be the one to spoil the baby and sneak her treats we won&#39;t let her have. !!!  I think that, because we have not wanted to be preachy to our family members, we haven&#39;t been very candid about WHY we make the choices we do and it may be time for that so that they can better understand just how important it is.</p>
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		<title>By: jasondoucette</title>
		<link>http://stayingvegan.com/2010/01/dealing-with-non-vegan-family-members/comment-page-1/#comment-217</link>
		<dc:creator>jasondoucette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 08:55:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the update Elaine!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the update Elaine!</p>
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		<title>By: Elaine</title>
		<link>http://stayingvegan.com/2010/01/dealing-with-non-vegan-family-members/comment-page-1/#comment-216</link>
		<dc:creator>Elaine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 00:55:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>FYI - if anyone&#039;s interested in fostering...&lt;br&gt;Every state has different foster and adoption processes. Here is a good place to start to find out more:&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.adoptuskids.org/resourceCenter/aboutFosterCare.aspx&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;http://www.adoptuskids.org/resourceCenter/about...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;We chose to foster because we&#039;d like to adopt but we didn&#039;t want to do a costly private adoption. (Truthfully, we&#039;d rather save those thousands of dollars for the child&#039;s college education.) But now, even if/when we adopt I think we&#039;ll still foster every now and then. There are just too many wonderful, needy kids.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>FYI &#8211; if anyone&#39;s interested in fostering&#8230;<br />Every state has different foster and adoption processes. Here is a good place to start to find out more:<br /><a href="http://www.adoptuskids.org/resourceCenter/aboutFosterCare.aspx" rel="nofollow"></a><a href="http://www.adoptuskids.org/resourceCenter/about.." rel="nofollow">http://www.adoptuskids.org/resourceCenter/about..</a>.</p>
<p>We chose to foster because we&#39;d like to adopt but we didn&#39;t want to do a costly private adoption. (Truthfully, we&#39;d rather save those thousands of dollars for the child&#39;s college education.) But now, even if/when we adopt I think we&#39;ll still foster every now and then. There are just too many wonderful, needy kids.</p>
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		<title>By: Steph</title>
		<link>http://stayingvegan.com/2010/01/dealing-with-non-vegan-family-members/comment-page-1/#comment-215</link>
		<dc:creator>Steph</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 00:06:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have a certain amount of respect from my family, but the comments still continued.  That&#039;s because some people like to nag, harass, whatever.  So I picked a similar non-issue that irritated my main detractor, started teasing them back, and that worked to keep the peace.  When we lapse and forget our cease-fire, I find simply asking them (in private) to stop because I don&#039;t want to be undermined in my child&#039;s eyes.  It really isn&#039;t an issue, so we can make it work without a lot of stress.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a certain amount of respect from my family, but the comments still continued.  That&#39;s because some people like to nag, harass, whatever.  So I picked a similar non-issue that irritated my main detractor, started teasing them back, and that worked to keep the peace.  When we lapse and forget our cease-fire, I find simply asking them (in private) to stop because I don&#39;t want to be undermined in my child&#39;s eyes.  It really isn&#39;t an issue, so we can make it work without a lot of stress.</p>
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		<title>By: misovegan</title>
		<link>http://stayingvegan.com/2010/01/dealing-with-non-vegan-family-members/comment-page-1/#comment-214</link>
		<dc:creator>misovegan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jan 2010 23:45:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Foster parenting as vegans is a great idea!!  By feeding babies vegan food from an early age you set them up for better health down the road, even if their subsequent parents don&#039;t keep them vegan.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Foster parenting as vegans is a great idea!!  By feeding babies vegan food from an early age you set them up for better health down the road, even if their subsequent parents don&#39;t keep them vegan.</p>
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